I remember a time when things had to be extravagant for me to enjoy them. I lived for grandeur! It was never to show off, but rather my personal preference. Now that I am maturing (or just plain ole' getting old as my children wants me to believe), I have learned to slow down and think on the smaller things. I realize as much as one can love their beautiful car or home or clothes, none would be complete without the tiny components that complete it.
Take a few minutes to know that the smaller things can make all the difference in the world. I always hear the elders say, 'if you think that baby toe is good for nothing, hit or drop something on it!'' You will then see that it is just as vital as the rest of your body!!!
Instead of rushing life away trying to get to some self-fulfilling end, take some time to first appreciate you and then appreciate all of those that surround you. I've learned to even appreciate my enemies because they keep me moving forward ( I will get the last laugh :-D). Tell your loved ones that you do indeed love them. Make relationships relevant and discard ill will and negativity. You will live longer!!!! :-)
The next time we enjoy something in its completed state, remember to think about all of the individual contributors that helped make it what it is! Know that all of your family, friends, acquaintances, and even enemies played and intrigal role in making you, you! Enjoy the completed product
Until next time, learn to enjoy your simple pleasures!
Friday, June 10, 2011
Thursday, June 9, 2011
Sanity in an insane world
I know that it may be hard to see the light at the end of the tunnel, but you have to! I mean, what are your other options? Die? No, not now!!!!! The last year and one half has been a really eventful for my family. I found my father, or rather a friend found him for me. Along with that, came four brothers and one sister! This was a shock for someone that always believe herself to be an only child! My mother overcame a great illness that almost took her life. I am the parent of teenagers (that's a blog all by itself). My husband and I are helping elderly parents with some of the issues that the elderly faces daily. We have had our own share of health issues and concerns. Now, we are dealing with a family member that is going through a serious medical crisis. All of this in the midst of looking for employment, preparing children for college and high school, finding time for family, each other, and sneaking in a little time for one's self.
All I know is, there is going to be a great reward in overcoming! I have learned to stay connected to my spiritual man. I limit what I say and who I say it to! I take quite time to reflect on situation and analyze needed changes. I have learned to encourage myself and speak life into existence. I look at my circumstance and know that it won't be like this always. I seek joy in small things that I once took for granted.; playing a game with the family, watching a favorite televisions show, listening to the birds chirp early in the morning.
I don't k now what gets you going, but find it and push towards it. Act on the positive and learn from the negative. Smile in the face of adversity and when no one is around, tell YOURSELF... it WILL be alright!!!
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